Feel like I’m losing my way. Pressure and fear is unrelenting. All senses heightened. Anxious, helpless, mind racing, heart pounding. Just want to sit in the middle of a field and wave a white flag.

Floundering, fearful of what may happen tomorrow. Will it bring joy or sorrow? Lingering scent of sadness is always with me. It takes exceptional friends to stay close.

5am- in the barn. Temp. -28C with a severe NW wind-chill. Horses have to be fed, blanketed etc.  Jason is inside sleeping. I’m worried out of my mind …is he ok?…has he woken up?….has he had a seizure?….has he fallen?. I feel sick. It’s insane but there is no way out.

Grave danger and overpowering worry of the upcoming surgery is suffocating me.Knowing what could happen to Jason evokes a horrible picture.Total panic. My body and mind feels ripped open and rearranged. I’m on the River of Fear…some days the boat is afloat, other times it is capsizing and this is one of those days.

I hear a muffled thud from upstairs. Seizure! Adrenaline skyrockets. Warp speed up the stairs I burst into his room relieved to find him at his computer, headset on, whistling and humming with his shoes thumping to the beat.This is the thud I heard. As Jason removes his headset I hear Eric Clapton blasting out ‘COCAINE’!!  “Oh hi Mum” a big smile across his face. This smile flows into my heart.  I respond “ Oh hi love, just thought I would see what’s going on” acting nonchalant while reining in my adrenaline. We had a little chat and  I let him get back to his music.  Jason’s spirit never ceases to amaze me and this inspires me to stay brave. There he is up there playing his computer games listening to music and smiling and he has the biggest hurdle of his life coming up. Everything comes back into perspective.

My recurring dream happened again last night. Jason is in the back of the car, we are driving past Qualicum Beach. Jason is frantic not knowing where we are, he can’t see, he can’t hear. I quickly put the windows down he smells the sea air and knows he is by the ocean. This would affect me for days. There are NF2 cases with complete loss of their hearing and sight and that is my greatest fear. As it stands now when I walk directly beside Jason I have to decide does Jason need to hear me or see me. If I walk on Jason’s right side he can’t see me. If I walk on Jason’s left side he can’t hear me.